Note by @fastfinge

@alexchapman @Tamasg Of course there's a point in giving up. If it's hurting your mental health, stop now. Because this is going to be how things are for decades if you continue down this path. When I said disappointed, I didn't mean disappointed in Tamas. If stopping is the right thing for him, he should stop. But I can still be disappointed that this isn't happening, without assigning any blame or responsibility on Tamas or myself.