Note by @fastfinge

@rommix0 I mean I prefer neutral terms in a lot of places. Actor, not actress. Flight attendant, not stewardess. But that’s more because gender doesn’t matter in these cases, and I resent having to think about the gender of the person I’m writing about, and then pick the right term for them. Especially today now that gender is more fluid. I neither no ‘nor care about the gender identity of an actor I heard in a movie once, and I am absolutely not looking it up. So on the whole gender neutral language is a win just because it saves me time. Like if you’re writing about someone’s hair, the anti-woke people want me to figure out what gender of hair it is, spell blonde accordingly, and use brunette for women and brown for men. Screw ‘em. Being politically correct is so much less effort.